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Post by Norbo on Feb 1, 2009 22:21:34 GMT 1
As some of you know My EX is being a bitch about out kids . Using them as a wepon stopped me from seeing them for months and so on. Then getting on to the Bloody CSA. now after many months i only get 3 nights a month.
I used to have them a lot every weekend i do all the school things / partys and loads of days out on weekdays as well. so i see them a lot or used to .
Anyway my Daughter has had anough of all the crap her mum has been doing and with all the threts and blackmail she has had to put out with she now has her own solicitor and he's bloody good .
so with any luck now thing may take a turn for me and the kids now as its all been for the bith mum so far.
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Post by doy on Feb 1, 2009 22:39:14 GMT 1
Glad to hear things are looking up mate
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Post by scott on Feb 1, 2009 23:05:34 GMT 1
hope it all works out for ya m8,i would hate my kids to be kept from seeing me
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Post by twostroker on Feb 2, 2009 0:26:55 GMT 1
hope all goes well for you mate,as a believer of karma her nasty behaviour will get her back sooner or later.
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Post by guiri on Feb 2, 2009 1:25:10 GMT 1
hope all goes well for you mate,as a believer of karma her nasty behaviour will get her back sooner or later. yeh wot goes around comes around mate. she get hers one day norbo..
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Post by andysh2 on Feb 2, 2009 16:47:24 GMT 1
Hope all goes well it's a bit of a sod when the kids are used as pawns, why can parents never get on for the sake of the kids. my ex is up and down all the time talk about split personality or jeckll and hyde to be precise lol.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 2, 2009 21:44:00 GMT 1
To see your kids for only 3 nights a month must be hard for you, Norbo. Stick in there. You obviously love them loads and it sounds like your ex has been trying to hit where she knows it will hurt. Sounds like you've got a smart daughter there
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Post by Norbo on Feb 3, 2009 0:31:12 GMT 1
To see your kids for only 3 nights a month must be hard for you, Norbo. Stick in there. You obviously love them loads and it sounds like your ex has been trying to hit where she knows it will hurt. Sounds like you've got a smart daughter there After a talk to a solicitor she was told that if she only let me have the kids for 3 nights a month then she can clame i am an abcent parent and get more money from the CSA . Who contacted me the same week she got the order for 3 days a month. f**king bitch or what . Its all about what she wants and allways has been and Sod the kids . but i have smart kids and they can see what the mum is doing and they hate her for it . She has done herself no favours by going down this root. Its sad becourse befor she cheeted on me with this bloke of the net she was a nice person and i can honestley say i never saw this side of her in the 10 years we were together .
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Post by lcowner on Feb 3, 2009 0:44:43 GMT 1
unreal norbs!hate if that happened to me.dont think i could even talk about it...........keep up the posts .were all here for support..........
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Post by vin on Feb 3, 2009 8:09:08 GMT 1
Your a good Dad mate! I could tell that when I visited you that once. Things will sort itself out the way it should do in the end mate if you carry on being the supportive father which I know you will Keep the faith buddy
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Post by cooler on Feb 5, 2009 20:52:57 GMT 1
The lads are right norbs, my girl is 14 now and after losing her when she was 2, for the last couple of years when i get home from work she's sat in my house , having washed the dishes,made us both a sarnie,with her feet up watchin telly and this is 2 or 3 times a week and i still have the weekends with her aswell, kids know the difference between being used and being loved,, you wait mate them kids WILL be with ya
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Post by peeper56 on Feb 5, 2009 21:54:20 GMT 1
my ex trys it every year with the csa this year it has the hoilday home i brought but apprently if its under £65000 its not an asset. ididn't know that its a game that women play. don't let them get your goat! i hide my goat in a box behind the sofa ;D take care mate hope kids are well
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