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Post by Dirtbag on Dec 6, 2008 22:08:44 GMT 1
Well guys I'm gonna be off the air for a while , split up. If any of you need to contact me , I can still access my private email at work. TTFN Dirtbag  |
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Post by vin on Dec 6, 2008 22:20:29 GMT 1
Blimey mate  Hope to here you back here soon buddy! |
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Post by ozzy on Dec 7, 2008 13:15:00 GMT 1
sorry to here that m8 and at crimbo too.
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Post by nutters33000 on Dec 7, 2008 17:09:10 GMT 1
all the best mate. hope 09 brings you more joy.
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Post by cooler on Dec 8, 2008 20:36:07 GMT 1
walk tall or don't walk at all,, been there mate chin up at all times,there are one or two things that belong to everybody that nobody can take, pride,dignity and self respect, all the best pal.
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Post by andysh2 on Dec 9, 2008 19:42:15 GMT 1
Been there too mate nearly two years ago, you'll get through and you will be happier trust me, you got any kids involved? If so thats the worst part especially having to deal with the ex.
Good Luck mate take care.
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Post by Norbo on Dec 12, 2008 13:21:00 GMT 1
Bloody hell mate . What hapend there then . I realy hope she is right with you over your little one ..
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Post by Dirtbag on Apr 20, 2009 23:22:11 GMT 1
Bloody hell mate . What hapend there then . I realy hope she is right with you over your little one .. No mate , she isnt....havent seen little fella in 4 months thanks to her , I can show you the PM's and emails she sent me if ya like . I thought women were supposed to be more mature than men ! not in this case Using kids as ammunition is not only unfair on the kiddies it also shows how little the mother respects the child's wishes and needs. Got a shit-hot solicitor now though..........going for custody (not just access). Hi to all |
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Post by Norbo on Apr 21, 2009 8:31:56 GMT 1
We you dont need to tell me or Garry robo about this . been goin threw the same for over a year now.
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Post by Dirtbag on May 12, 2009 6:42:16 GMT 1
Cheers Gaz , better than 90% chance of winning says my solicitor , got 5 witnesses willing to testify....text messages, and emails , thinking of suing for slander too. Not seeing my little lad is making my mother seriously ill too , she's now got a heart problem.
Some women just cant handle being dumped....I was sick of being treated like shit.
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Post by vin on May 12, 2009 13:15:13 GMT 1
Nice to have you back mate Hope you get what you deserve with the kids buddy, my fingers are crossed for you but hope you don't need it Lets hope justice prevails! |
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Post by Dirtbag on May 13, 2009 6:42:21 GMT 1
Thanks for your sentiments Vin.....good to be back mate Jeff , same to you too buddy....great to be back , as for the junkie mum thing...........since that terrible incident to baby "P" several laws have been changed - I have done some serious digging legally-wise and to be honest mate even the thickest judge would at the very least grant me shared custody , but added to that there are several witnesses to back me up {I cant go into detail - as I'm sure you'll know why} even her own relatives disagree with what she's doing. Deliberately denying a child access to their parents is now classed as gross neglect....amongst other things. Again thanks for your comments guys |
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Post by Norbo on May 13, 2009 11:29:50 GMT 1
well i hope it works out for you .
But i have to say i am 1 year on and the couts have done nothing for any extra contact for me with my son . My ex uses the kids as a wepon and she is very good at it . The court system and everyone to do with it seems to be working to make her happy .
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Post by twostroker on May 13, 2009 18:57:57 GMT 1
ive just split up with my mrs too,well i got dumped to be precise its absolutly heart breaking its like some femails are heartless.no joke last thurs day mine sent me a nice long text message saying how much she loves me etc etc,the following day she finished it for no reason,lucky enough we wasnt married and no kids but its still not nice,any way all the best dirt bag
i partialy blame facebook for wrecking my relationship,its unreal the amount of muppets that are on there just to chat up peoples wives/girlfriends....... rant over lol
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Post by Dirtbag on May 13, 2009 23:37:19 GMT 1
I know what you're saying about facebook mate.....but to be honest the internet can either be a blessing or a curse.....I think it's both  Sorry to hear about your relationship m8 , it is easier if marriage and kids arent involved....but that doesnt make it hurt any less. Einstein had the right philosophy about the majority of women..."a woman's only true love is herself - man beware" , there are good ones out there , but its like looking for a pin in a mountain of needles. |
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Post by twostroker on May 14, 2009 18:46:48 GMT 1
I know what you're saying about facebook mate.....but to be honest the internet can either be a blessing or a curse.....I think it's both :- Einstein had the right philosophy about the majority of women..."a woman's only true love is herself - man beware" , there are good ones out there , but its like looking for a pin in a mountain of needles. well ive all ready had my fair shair of bad ones,law of avereges surley if get a good one one day ::)the thing with women is when you first meet them they act all nice than over time they turn progressivley nastier,well in my experience anyway |
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Post by Norbo on May 15, 2009 11:11:25 GMT 1
Its funny how many people tell about how women get vindictive and use children as wepons, and try to take everything from the EX. Some blokes have worked all there life saved up scrimped and saved worked ther fingers to the bone to get what they have and a women moves in from there mums and takes over half of everything in a matter of years then the bloke has to pay out to the CSA for the next 16 years and has to fite to see his children.
O yes the brtish courts a grate thing they are for justise.
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Post by andysh2 on May 15, 2009 20:32:25 GMT 1
Norbo,
You got all sorted then now mate you got the kids with you? As for good women i must of dropped lucky because i got divorced last year from a complete nutcase lol and i'm now with a lovely lady she's even just bought a mk1 rd125lc to restore. So sometimes things are for the best aint they. Keep your chin up.
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Post by Norbo on May 16, 2009 10:42:31 GMT 1
No mate its not al;l sorted im back in court again in 2 weeks . my dourghter has moved in with me so its not all bad its just the hasstle from the bitch all the time about contact with my son . she hates the fact they love me and whant to be with me .
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Post by twostroker on May 16, 2009 11:49:48 GMT 1
most kids naturaly want to be with there mother so it just shows how much of a better person you are norbs as they want to be with you,im sure you will win in court and come out on top mate,chin up aye
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Post by cooler on May 16, 2009 19:45:29 GMT 1
No mate its not al;l sorted im back in court again in 2 weeks . my dourghter has moved in with me so its not all bad its just the hasstle from the bitch all the time about contact with my son . she hates the fact they love me and whant to be with me . F**k how ur x feels mate u just keep doin what ur doin coz you're already half way there, thing is the more u do the right thing the more it winds your ex up,,, in my experience,,, kids are the only innocent ones amongst us and the ones with most common sense. |
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Post by Dirtbag on May 17, 2009 23:46:28 GMT 1
Its surprising how many of us are suffering the injustices . There is some good advice available out there......and a fair bit of support , the "fathers for justice" website is a good help. It's a real worry when your ex is violent too......I cant even think straight sometimes.....just worrying about my little lad and what he might be going through. f**ked-up bitches.....I hate em'  |
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Post by Dirtbag on May 18, 2009 0:16:21 GMT 1
oi you nicked my avy.... Couldnt resist it mate....what a fine arse she has  ;D |
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